I really wanted the kids to get this message to so I had them bring down their must beloved possession - not their most valuable - their most beloved. Caileigh brought her purple teddy named "Dolly Bear" which we had picked out together on a trip to Build a Bear when she was 3. Collin brought a small, square, miniature blankie named "silky" which has been recovered countless times and was given to him at birth by Mr Vic, Miss Mo and Alex. Connor brought down a life sized Mickey Mouse which he sleeps on instead of a pillow, also given by Mr. Vic, Miss Mo and Alex. I started asking how valuable these items were. "Could we sell these things for a lot of money?" "Are they in good shape?" "would someone else buy them on e-bay for what they are worth?" After comforting the kids that I was not going to sell them, I asked them why they are valuable to them? What makes them valuable to them? Was the material, now worn? Was it the music that no longer plays? Finally, Caileigh said, "Mommy, it's worth lots because I love it." Ahhhhh, now we come to the point. It's valuable because you love it. Connor, having been in these kind of object lessons before, said, "It's just like how God loves us!" Exactly, God loves us and therefore we are valuable not the other way around. Collin, no slouch on catching on said, " Mom, that's what Jesus Loves Us says. We should sing it!" So we did.
I really wanted the kids to understand that Jesus Loves Them! He loves them no matter what and they can't earn or do anything to change that. He loves them and that's what makes them valuable, they are His.
It was a good reminder to me too. I forget that it's not how I raise my kids, how clean my house is, how much I accomplish but the point is that Jesus Loves Me and that makes me valuable.
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thanks for the kind reminder I am gpomg through some rough trials right now and this brought a smile to my heart have a blessed day char
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